A number of years ago I was driving down a steep hill one afternoon when I noticed a mosquito-like bug holding on to the side window with all of its strength. Its ability to hang on was amazing, for it seemed it might be torn apart any second by the wind-stream. Its tenacity and strength was really a liability however, for only in letting go could it be safe.
I struck me that my strength and abilities become liabilities when they keep me from letting go. When I seek my security in my own strength and achievements, I not only become exhausted, I will ultimately be insecure and disappointed because enough is never enough; there's always another step to climb up the ladder. And I've discovered living to impress others is a dead-end street. That's why Philippians 2:3 tells us, "Don't live to make a good impression on others."
Jesus gave a wonderful invitation in Matthew 11:28: "Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest."
Churck Swindoll gave this advice: "Asking for help is smart. It's also the answer to fatigue and the 'I'm indispensable' image. But something keeps us from this wise course of action, and that something is pride. Plain, stubborn unwillingness to admit need... God wants our life-style to be easier than most of us realize."
Only when we give up can we be truly secure in God's care. Sometimes God allows us to be almost destroyed - like the bug hanging on for dear life - so that we will give up and be safe in Him.
When we acknowledge our vulnerability and "give all (our) worries and cares to God," we are in a position to experience his amazing rest and care for our souls. (See I Peter 5:7).
