The power of a mentor

“Show me a successful individual and I’ll show you someone who had real positive influences in his or her life. I don’t care what you do for a living - if you do it well, I’m sure there was someone cheering you on or showing the way. A mentor.”— Denzel Washingto

In the last couple of weeks, two individuals who in much different ways played an important part in my formation as a businessman, passed away. Those deaths made me realize how blessed I have been to have great mentors in my life, and how important mentorship is to the success of leaders.

article continues below

I met Louis Matte when I was just 16 when I went to work on his farm. The father of my friend Harold, he first appeared gruff and demanding as he smoked his pipe and told me where I would be working. Little was I to know that first day I met him, that for the better part of the next 35 years, our lives would be intertwined in business and he would become a fantastic mentor to me.

It was by working on his farm, his construction sites, land developments and gas stations that I was able to pay for my college education and rub shoulders with Louis, who was a local business tycoon. During that time, I observed his propensity for business and his ability to visualize opportunities when others only saw hardship. I was able to openly question him about business deals and follow him as he started up a couple of different successful ventures as I worked for him. 

In 1988 he asked me if I would like to be his partner in a start-up. For the next 28 years we met regularly and he shared with me his wisdom and advice on how to be successful in business and life.

“A lot of people put pressure on themselves and think it will be way too hard for them to live out their dreams. Mentors are there to say, ‘Look, it’s not that tough. It’s not as hard as you think. Here are some guidelines and things I have gone through to get to where I am in my career”— Joe Jonas

One thing about great mentors is that while they are willing to share their knowledge and experiences, they are there for you when you make mistakes. I made my fair share of blunders, and Louis and I did have our occasional disagreements on how to approach various difficult situations. I knew that when times got tough that I could always go and sit down with Louis and his wife Rolande and by the end of the conversation life would be better.  In the end the dissolving of our partnership was not as harmonious as perhaps I would have liked but I can honestly say that as good mentors do, Louis allowed me to learn and grow from the experience, and we were still friends afterwards.

“The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches but to reveal to him hisown.” — Benjamin Disraeli

Annie Nusl died on Saturday, and I was able to spend a few hours at her bedside before she passed away. Annie, unlike Louis, wasn’t a business guru, but she was a dedicated employee of 20 years. Annie’s gift to me, beyond her loyalty and friendship, was her ability to teach me how to be a better manager of people. She gently guided me to slow down, be more patient, pay attention to details, to treat people better. Annie cared and that caring demeanor helped me to realize that life is so much more than just money or business. That is just what some mentors do!

Mentors come in all shapes and sizes and in all aspects of our lives. It's only when they leave us, that we truly realize their lasting influence and impact. and it is then that we can reflect on the blessing that they have been in ourlives.

“If I have seen further it is by standing on the shouldersofgiants.” — Isaac Newton

- Dave Fuller MBA, is an award-winning business coach and the author of the book Profit Yourself Healthy. Had a great mentor? email dave@pivotleader.com

Read Related Topics

Comments

NOTE: To post a comment you must have an account with at least one of the following services: Disqus, Facebook, Twitter, Google+ You may then login using your account credentials for that service. If you do not already have an account you may register a new profile with Disqus by first clicking the "Post as" button and then the link: "Don't have one? Register a new profile".

The Prince George Citizen welcomes your opinions and comments. We do not allow personal attacks, offensive language or unsubstantiated allegations. We reserve the right to edit comments for length, style, legality and taste and reproduce them in print, electronic or otherwise. Comments that contain external links will not be permitted. For further information, please contact the editor or publisher, or see our Terms and Conditions.

comments powered by Disqus

Casting your ballot POLL

How will you be casting your ballot in the upcoming provincial election?

or  view results

Popular Citizen

Lowest Gas Prices in Prince George
Prince George Gas Prices provided by GasBuddy.com