We cannot live without judging. We make decisions by weighing moral values, potential benefits or negative consequences of actions. We may make wise or foolish judgments. We also constantly evaluate the actions and words of others.
When Jesus said, "Do not judge, or you too will be judged" (Matt. 7:1) he was talking about condemning others in a critical or contemptuous manner, not of evaluating their behaviour, good or bad. He warns against judging by outward appearance or human standards, and calls us to recognize our own faults before criticizing others. Only God sees our true motives.
Jesus is often perceived as never judging anyone. He hung out with social outcasts. Critics called him "a friend of sinners." Yet he announced his public ministry with, "Repent and believe the good news!" Turn around. Change your ways. Jesus called for a heart change that affects everything we do. We are not just to keep his commands, but to practice their deeper principles. Anger, hatred and contempt can lead to murder. Selfish thoughts and desires can lead to sexual immorality. He calls us to love our enemies. Jesus said, "If you love me, keep my commands."
Peter urges us to be holy as God is holy, to abstain from sinful desires and to live such positive lives that even pagan neighbours will give thanks to God. "Love each other as I have loved you," is the crowning virtue of Christ's followers. Ironically Christians have been criticized when upholding these values and when they have failed.
Jesus exemplified the perfect balance - "full of grace and truth." He loved society's outcasts, yet called them to change. He offered the adulterous woman forgiveness but said, "Go and leave your life of sin." When Zaccheus, the tax collector, promised to make restitution, Jesus said, "Today salvation has come to this house."
True faith in Christ always leads to change of heart and conduct. But Jesus called the religious leaders blind guides and whitewashed tombstones - outwardly very religious but inwardly corrupt. Yet in his scathing judgment you can feel his broken heart. Jesus loved them, but condemned their hard-heartedness.
How can we judge in a proper manner? It's not easy. God is the only one who combines perfect righteousness with perfect love. We all fall far short of the mark and need to recognize our own faults.
To follow Christ, we must not only trust in his death on the cross, but follow his pattern of life. First priority is to love God with all our hearts and love our neighbours as ourselves. We must listen to and obey God's Word. Scripture clearly articulates right and wrong on many issues. In areas that are not clearly defined, follow Paul's instructions in Romans 14: 1) Accept those with different convictions, allowing them to be accountable to God. 2) Hold firm convictions. Don't be wishy-washy. 3) Don't be judgmental. 4) Don't needlessly offend others. 5) Work hard to build relationships and strengthen others. 6) Live according to your conscience, trusting God for guidance. When we must confront others, do it with gentleness and humility, speaking the truth in love.
