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Gang menber turns his back on life of crime Print E-mail
Written by FRANK PEEBLES
Citizen staff
  
Friday, 15 August 2008
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Gang menber turns his back on life of crime - Former gang member Phil Roy poses with shirt off showing his gang tattoos. (MAH_2079.jpg - 1953268)
Former gang member Phil Roy poses with shirt off showing his gang tattoos. (David Mah, Photographer)

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Former members of the gang life want the violence in Prince George to end. The afternoon gunfight on the downtown streets Aug. 6 was the latest in a string of attacks that have killed or seriously injured people involved in the drug trade, and threatened the public at large. In several cases bullets have been fired.
"It's becoming a little overwhelming," said Phil Roy, 31, a former drug dealer and addict who now lives a clean life, gainfully employed, working hard at being a family man with one child already, a stepson and a newborn on the way.
The most overwhelming of all is the death he has seen, including the drive-by shooting that murdered his friend Mitch Henry, 21, in January in a restaurant parking lot. Police have said that this incident, like much other high-profile violence in the past year, is connected to the drug world in the region. Most of it has to do with a war between rival members and associates of the Independent Soldiers gang, according to the RCMP. Sources said Henry was not a member of this gang but was a solo drug dealer. The reason for his execution has not emerged.
Those who knew Henry want the public to see the hip-hop poetry he wrote (excerpts below) and know his creative side. He could break-dance well, had skills as a rapper, could sing and loved to make his friends and family laugh. He was someone who wanted a different life outside of the underworld, but hadn't made the break there yet.
Henry seemingly could see a premature death coming. It came up in his writings - writings Henry's loved ones hope to have published as a book. It would be a memorial and a caution to other youth teetering on the brink of a similar life. Those involved in the Mitch Henry Project also hope to establish a youth centre to divert and help at-risk kids before they are drawn too deeply into thug life.

****italics****"
I once chilled with Jehova now I'm
burning with the devil
'cause the angel on my shoulda's
a push-ova
I've learned right from wrong
now wrong seems so right
death ain't far along
and yet neither is tonight.
***end italics****

Henry's sister Coral Henry, 26, also used to be drug-involved. She doesn't deny the hardcore life she lived as an addict and enforcer in the local street scene. For her and her younger brother it all came from their upbringing and a family member who literally led them into a life of crime while they were still children.
"We started doing drugs when we were eight and 12," she said. "I stole some cocaine and mushrooms out of (the family member's) stash. It was kept in the wall, behind the drywall, nobody knew it was there but every weekend there was a lot of partying, (the family member) was doing it all the time so we thought it was normal. A babysitter we had at the time showed us how to smoke it."
When little Mitch was eight, she said, he found a wallet in front of a neighbour's door where it had fallen. Inside was several hundred dollars. He wanted to turn it in to the police, she said, but the family member said no, they were going to keep it for themselves. These were the lessons in right and wrong that they were taught as kids. Soon Mitch evolved into crime and it wasn't long, said Carol, before her brother was addicted, doing violence and at 13 he was first put in jail, a place with which he would become very familiar.

****italics****
I grew up too fast with
no sense of direction,
life and death on my chest
to express all the stressors.
****end italics****

It wasn't any different for her, Coral said. On top of the drug life she grew into, there was also the trauma of the sexual assaults she suffered at the hands of three different men, once at age 13, once at age 10 and the first time she remembers at the age of four.
With no moral guidance, untreated emotional anxieties, the resulting alienation from mainstream life, and a hatred for legal authority invested in them by the family and friends around them, hostility was a natural progression. She too became involved in the drug world, a world unsafe for addicts and dealers alike.
According to police and court documents, drug debts as little as $100 could result in days of beatings, forcible confinement, torture and mutilation. A common punishment in the Prince George drug world is finger amputation, often with garden shears or cigar trimmers. In recent years murder has become a frequent item on the thug menu. Most of the unsolved homicides in the past five years police connect to the drug trade.

*****italics******
All I see is violence, drugz
nine millimeters and thugz
civilians duckin' slugz
crackheadz tweakin' on the rug."
*****end****

Roy said his upbringing was much different than Mitch's and Coral's but still the prime factor in how he entered the gang life.
"I was raised by my mom who was a hard worker and tried hard for us. She wasn't always there but she was mostly there," he said.
"My father was a gangbanger who followed us around and tried to kill us. I got love from the streets, or so I thought. Sometimes people go searching for acceptance. They gave it to me, they gave you protection, they gave you drugs, but what they didn't give you was that warning that eventually they wanted it all paid for. Once you were in it, you had to keep paying it back."
Coral Henry got lucky, she said. Her apartment is cozy, spotlessly clean and orderly. Her young son is a joyous presence flitting about the place. She wants the rest of her life to be free of the thug influence and she recognizes that her experience gives her a unique ability to warn others of what will come if that road is chosen.
"The only reason I came out the way I did was because my grandma took me when I was 13," she said.

****italics*****
Peace is a fantasy
sex, drugs and bigotry
is our only strategy."
***end****

"If me and Coral can change our lives, everyone else can do it, too," said Roy, pleading with the public to never take the easy way out and assume the ones shooting at each other and dealing drugs are forever set in their ways.
"It was hard but I did it, I got out. It is an easy life to get into but a pain to get out, but people can do it."
It seems that even in the depraved world of selling drugs, survival sex, underworld debt collection and desperation thievery, there is a code of conduct. That street code is not being followed right now and authorities warn the public that the violence won't end until there is a decision made to stop or some dominant force intervenes.
That force could be the public good stepping in with some law enforcement and some help to rehabilitate the gang members, or it could be the barrel of a gun.
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written by travhops , August 16, 2008 (03:28:06 AM)
Amazing story and kudos to all of them. Everyone has choices and these guys made theirs and stuck to it, even though the difficulties must have been enormous!
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written by yeahrite , August 16, 2008 (08:49:56 AM)
I am giving my head a shake-and have difficulty a drug addict and former pusher, who has totally turned his life around, is overwhelmed by the shooting of his friend-10 years his Junior, and a drug pusher, being shot by ????? gang members-but the young man was not a member of any gang-but operated solo????? Strange relationship-to say the least.
I am not even from Missouri-but I find this story just a bit hard to swallow. It is like hearing "Don't eat that Elmer-it is horse s...!
As for the poetry-don't waste your money publishing it. Going to jail at 13 was hardly a "wake up" call for a kid-who should have been scared sh.. le.., and how does a kid support a drug habit and become involved in violence, and at the tender age of 13 yet? Sounds a bit like a cock and bull story-. Just in case it isn't, best keep an eye out if your kid comes home minus a finger or two. Probably a message there, or would it be poetic justice for some wrongdoing???
I am a bit weary of hearing they are a result of their horrible upbringing, and all the terrible wrongs that had befallen them as children. Many children do not have perfect parents-and I am not sure I would know the definition of a perfect parent. Do we have a valid reason for a kid brought up with caring parents becoming a druggie and pusher?? Must be something went awry?
These stories are for the "bleeding hearts" who will defend these poor hard done by kids who were "forced" into their lives of drugs, prostitution, pushing, becoming gang members, and, and , and!
Give it up! I just do not buy it!
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written by gloriaharding , August 16, 2008 (09:42:44 AM)
congratulations on your recovery Roy...do I think it helps to scare the crap out of everyone in the community about the "big gang problem" in Prince George...not really!!What we really have in this community is a bunch of mislead teenagers that have no healthy relationships with their parents or other caring adults. Indentifying with rap music and other destuctive behaviors is the way young people find themselves emulating gang behavior and looking for approval from their peers.As well Methamphetamine plays a big part in what happens in the minds of these kids. Having peer support is the way to go..there is immense value in a person who has been there helping another get out. Positive peer support vs. Negative.
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written by realist , August 16, 2008 (09:44:03 AM)
It is too bad that in this day of age we still have people like yeahrite. He is an individual that has no idea what they are talking about and yet spew their ignorance as if it were fact. This is exactly the same stupidity that has allowed our society to devolve into the situation we are in. It also shows how Harpers uninformed crusade against the safe injection site can somehow be accepted even though the world scientific community has proven that it is in fact needed and saves lives (and for those who put money over human lives, they save the taxpayer huge medical bills). You can not blame someone for being having a lack of intelligence but ignorance like that shown above is inexcusable.
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written by StraightUP , August 16, 2008 (09:46:54 AM)
Not that it cannot be done

http://www.citizenvoices.gg.ca/en/videos/29

People who call this neighborhood 'the hood' (spuriously inspired by LA GANG culture) should do a little
on-line research on Los Angeles gangs


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Congrats 2 u!
written by dhood , August 16, 2008 (09:52:04 AM)
I say if Ralph Paquette could do it so can you. But I suggest a fresh start in another town. Get an education and if you can't make your mamma proud then how about the grandma that took in Mitch's sister. The past is past and now it's time to move on. YOU CAN DO IT!!!
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written by yeahrite , August 16, 2008 (12:53:35 PM)
Hey hey Realist-your back is up-and speaking of stupidity-I did not say I knew the facts-nor did I elaborate on gang activity, or give honorable mention to needles-whether exchanged or shared! You brought that up. Now for my opinion- I could care less if the druggies poked themselves in the eye-but they do not have the right to take needles from a so called "exchange" and dispose of them on streets, alleys, or elswhere. Does anyone enjoy picking up discarded needles, condoms, and trash?
Got that message?
There are a lot of "poor me's" in this world, looking for sympathy for a fact they are hardly a benefit to society. I worked all my life! --Have you? or the majority of the druggies? Are you living off the benefits of the working taxpayer? Are you paying taxes to support scumbags and criminals?
I, in all probability, have an I Q which most astonishingly will exceed yours-and I have always worked, taken care of my responsibilities, and inadvertently paid taxes to keep the poor hard done by druggies, pushers, and prostitutes.
When it comes to ignorance-who is more deserving of the descriptive?
When it comes to intelligence- I am sure many do not want to pit themselves against the person who finds it difficult to condone the segment of society which is detrimental to all of society.
Get the message yet? I didn't think so!

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written by travhops , August 16, 2008 (12:58:55 PM)
Anyone can make mistakes, get on the wrong track. Having the courage to get on the right track and turn your life around is commendable in my book. Society can learn from kids like Mr. Roy and perhaps intervene before it's too late. Good point about the LA gangs too. People can get out and some remarkable people are working with kids to help them get out of it. I also feel this guy's poetry is very good and worth reading.
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written by dhood , August 16, 2008 (02:38:07 PM)
Who's the foo that voted against me. Take that back right now! Ralph would still be here enjoying his grandkids if he hadn't made such a detrimental mistake. Drugs were only part of it and the cycle continues. Don't be a part of the cycle. It's up to you now.
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written by itsjeeplady , August 16, 2008 (05:35:48 PM)
Too many people blame others for their daily choices. Too many people have had horrendous childhoods but not all continue to choose to be a victim. I myself had no parental guidance, grew up in foster care, different home every 6 months, sexually abused, physically abused, emotionally abused. There is something inherently wrong with someone who allows themselves to continue in this path. I had no help dragging myself out of this lifestyle. By the time I even realized I was in it I had three kids to support. I am now a contributing member of society and can't stand to hear ANY excuses. I'm tired of whiners. I'm sick, I'm disabled, I'm an addict, I'm fat, I'm a single mom, My boyfriend hits me, I'm depressed. wah wah wah. Get it together people. The time to quit blaming others for YOUR crappy life is when you turned 16. As for people who are into hard drugs, I think we should do to them what I did to my teenager when he wanted to smoke. Just keep feeding it to them until it makes them sick. Or they die. Life is designed for the strongest to survive. Let the weak people kill themselves off. I'm tired of paying taxes for safe injection sites, drug addiction centres, jail birds, welfare bums, and all the rest of the people who work the system because they are too lazy to get a life. Where is my help from the gov't when I need a hand? I get nothing, I expect nothing. I work extremely hard for what I have whether it is money in the bank or a healthy attitude towards myself and other healthy minded people. Maybe all the bleeding hearts should pay for the people bleeding the system and the rest of us who have grown up can get ahead in life and not have to worry about walking downtown!
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calling a spade a spade
written by woodstock , August 16, 2008 (05:51:12 PM)
I like it when someone calls a spade a spade.
we all are in charge of our destiny.
you can be what you want to be..be it good or bad.
Too many want a free ride. One has to put into the cup to get anything out.
It will be their choice to straiten up and their choice only. You can lead a horse to water..but ya can't make him drink.
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Choices
written by Willowynde , August 16, 2008 (08:31:03 PM)
I have to agree with people who say you don't have to turn out "bad" because of your upbringing. I was raised in a "dysfunctional" family. I knew from the time I was a toddler that I could not go into our house (I lived on a farm)unless my dad was there, as my mother was a violent, mentally unwell person and would harm me. As a result I spent most of my childhood in boarding schools or with my father's relatives. I became pregnant at 15, married and divorced before 19. Completely without support from anyone. Certainly without a mother's caring or positive influence.

Did I become a whiner? Did I expect society to support and care for me or my children? No. And I didn't resort to crime, or drugs, either.

My children are grown, and have children of their own. I am a respectable citizen of Prince George. That was/is mt choice.


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Congrats!
written by White House , August 17, 2008 (08:52:29 AM)
I commend those who were part of the gang and drug world who have found their way out & become contributing members of society. There are too many people, in this forum and in the general public who make comments about situations which they have not had any exposure to. Instead of putting people down, do something positive with your time and energy & get involved in your community. There are many options in Prince George for people who have some time to volunteer and help turn things around.

If you would like to know how you can have a positive influence in your community, contact Volunteer PG (http://www.volunteerpg.com/) to see what options are available to you.

In the next month our local volunteer run radio station 93.1 fm is featuring volunteer organizations in the community who are looking for additional volunteers to join them. Listen in and see how you can be a contributing member!

Again, congratulations to the individuals interviewed for this article. I for one am proud of them for the changes they have made in their lives.
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written by itsjeeplady , August 17, 2008 (10:01:32 AM)
I disagree with white house saying that people in this forum have not had the exposure to the problems that these other poor unfortunate people are facing. That is completely untrue. As well, it is not us that are putting these people down. It is themselves. I for one do not have time to volunteer to help these weak people look after themselves. I am too busy working hard, raising my family and am already paying for programs for them that don't work. They have to want it. Only they can turn things around. Not us. It is people like white house who continue to enable these people to justify their choices and actions by protecting them and standing up for them. Their intent may be to help bring about change, however, they are actually inadvertently contributing to the continuation of the cycle. SERIOUSLY. They are giving them the message that only they have been exposed to the harshness of life. That only they are not responsible for their lives. That it is ok to blame their addictions and lifestyle on other people. What is called for is tough love on them instead of belittling us for not buying into their pathetic victim attitudes. I do agree with white house on the topic of congratulating the people with enough sense and strength to pull themselves out of the gutter and become involved in the process of valuing themselves and every day life. Perhaps they can begin to put back into the system so our children have some hope of hanging onto their hard earned money and being safe when they go to put it in the bank.
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written by ApeKillApe , August 17, 2008 (10:27:25 AM)
Wow ... I'm not sure if some of you are being sarcastic or are dead serious. I agree there is a level of individual accountability in anybody's actions, but do you really believe leaving people out to hang without any sort of social support will effect any change? Sounds almost like some people are content to BLAME the problems they see on whatever undesirables happen to be around. Why not take this bull by its horns and do something, instead of throwing around negative accusations? This is a story of a life experience, not a teary-eyed plea for a handout.
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written by dhood , August 17, 2008 (12:18:46 PM)
You look very THUGABLE I mean HUGGABLE!! What's that poem about "Footprints" in the sand? I'm sure you are being watched over so continue on this path and you too will be carried thru. I can see it happening already! When you're down just read that poem, it really does help.
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written by White House , August 17, 2008 (12:53:37 PM)
itsjeeplady...perhaps you should read the entire posting before putting down my comments.

By the way, I not only hold full-time employment in a professional position in PG, I commute, have a family & 3 children, a business and am a volunteer board member on one of the many agencies that is available to individuals who require assistance from others.

If you would like to start talking about being busy.....perhaps you need to take some time management courses so you can help others and not just yourself.

You are reading your own message/agenda between the lines & I am wondering now what your real issues are.

The original article was written with the intention of enabling others in a bad situation to realize that they can explore other options & have a different/better life. Unfortunately, some people can't look at anything other than the negative that they have read between the lines.
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written by Vogel , August 17, 2008 (02:54:38 PM)
Ok, White house,white bread,white picket fence, i,m actually glad to see that you did'nt stomp the yard with a bible. Its unfortunate that the majority does not have the same mind set as you, but you keep doing what your doing,there are people out here that do appreciate what you do.Good luck to you Phil Roy, hope things work out for you .
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written by aGIRL , August 17, 2008 (10:12:06 PM)
I dont think anyone is looking for a pitty party here. We all live a life to our own experience that is good or bad. We are all intitled to our own feeling and thaughts. A review was made on the family, go figure. Why judge a person. "My life was no better and look how i turned out". Is what I'm reading here. This was still a baby that had lost his life to a bad choice he had made. Who knows he could have had a succesful life to look foward to. Living a RUFF life only makes you stronger. For some not, for majority yes. I would be honord to buy this boys book. This book could possably change the lives of others in our younger generation to do better. Gang life is not what it is all cracked up to be. You just loose in the end, but why not help make a change and a difference.
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written by Reality , August 18, 2008 (08:38:27 AM)
Grew up in an abusive home, did drugs for a long time throughout my teens and it became a very serious problem, but got my sh__ together and am now a mom of three with a very good, well paying job, healthy relationships and so much to be proud of. Congrats to the rest of you who managed to work your way out of a lifestyle destined for disaster. I pat myself on the back too. It sure as hell wasn't easy. Having said that, I have to point out that I never would have been able to do it without support and it sure as hell didn't come from my family. I certainly do not sit back in my armchair and pass judgment on those who have not yet taken that step. All we have are our own experiences to use as examples, we have no clue what others may have encountered or what challenges they face. Not a bleeding heart here - just someone who has seen some awfully dreadful situations firsthand. I do agree everyone has a choice - but I am not going to sit high on my horse and look down on those who haven't yet decided to make the change or who haven't even realized they are capable. They are fighting their own demons. No - I do not think it makes it ok - just that "it is what it is".
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Congratulations Phil
written by SensGirl , August 18, 2008 (09:46:48 AM)
I knew Phil Roy and his brother about ten years ago. We had some mutual friends but I was 15 and was completely oblivious to what was going on around me (hard drugs). I didn't even know Phil was involved in a gang until today. Phil, I am happy that you are doing so well in life and I hope your brother is just as good. Congratulations on getting clean. I hope you can be an inspiration to those who feel there is no way out. I wish you all the best. Take care.

As a side note, some people on here are so quick to judge. My brother came from a good home but got involved with the wrong people and became addicted to meth. Thankfully, he hit bottom a couple of years ago when I had to kick him out of my house and he is now clean and working. It doesn't matter where you come from. Anyone can go down the wrong path and not even realize they are there. I am thankful for the organizations that are out there to help youth and families deal with drug addiction. I know they helped me with my brother.
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written by itsjeeplady , August 18, 2008 (11:26:51 AM)
LOL you are talking to the QUEEN of time management sister. I run two businesses as well as a 160 acre farm, my family, my sick mother, etc.etc. Why are you attacking me personally? Shouldn't you be out volunteering or something? No high horse here. I think people have missed the fact that obviously I am not judging Phil Roy. In fact, I congratulated him. This article sparked comments on people who make excuses for their extremely bad behaviour that we all have to live with (i.e. our little guys quad was stolen last week). I don't see Phil making excuses. I see him making changes. I am entitled to my opinion. I do believe that our social programs do NOT work. As Sensgirl stated "I had to kick him out of my house and he is now clean and working". Necessity is the mother of invention. If someone HAS to change they WILL. If they have somewhere to go to give a poor me speech and get a hand out, they will.
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written by dhood , August 18, 2008 (11:38:48 AM)
I'm voting for myself because no one else will. How's that for "helping myself."
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written by aGIRL , August 18, 2008 (12:30:37 PM)
This poor boy lost his life, I think his book will be a great inspiration to help the other youth out there to do the opposite. From what I hear from other sources if I am not mistaken, is that Phil Roy has been a great support for The siser who he is friends with. I feel fro her and her family to go through a tragic loss. I hope to see Guy mIthchell Henry's book published from what I have read in the clipping, I like and I will be donating money. Good for you Phil for helping the sister and her family. To the sister and her family stay strong. My condolences go out to you.
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written by White House , August 18, 2008 (01:20:32 PM)
itsjeeplady: 'It is people like white house who continue to enable these people to justify their choices and actions by protecting them and standing up for them'. Who was attacking who?
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written by itsjeeplady , August 18, 2008 (02:16:34 PM)
Perhaps you should have finished quoting me. "Their intent may be to help bring about change, however, they are actually inadvertently contributing to the continuation of the cycle" Was definitely on topic and NOT a personal assault on your individual skills and I certainly didn't intimate that you have unresolved personal issues. Sorry you don't agree with my informed point of view but this is a DISCUSSION forum after all. Perhaps you could manage to contain yourself to the discussion.
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written by StraightUP , August 18, 2008 (02:43:55 PM)
Well yeahrite and itsjeeplady, we will continue to help people such as Phil and Mr Mitchell and in the future, snicker, keep your two bit comments confined to your
160 acre farm and manage your time so it doesnt include our efforts to lend moral support to people who want to better themselves. Cock and bull story is yours to keep or leave it alone. Go find something better top do than pester a Comment board, this isnt a discussion forum.
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written by allniter , August 18, 2008 (02:54:31 PM)
The way I see it, any addict who is making the effort to get straight deserves no less than moral support from the rest of us. This moral support can make the difference between success and failure, because, like it or not, homo sapiens is a group species, not a solitary one.

Kicking the drug habit is a long battle and anyone who endeavors to win this battle is one brave soul.

Kudos to this young fella! The battle for him is not over because the temptation will always be there, but if he can continue to resist that temptation, he's a winner in my book.
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written by Reality , August 18, 2008 (03:26:27 PM)
well said allniter.
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written by AmberEN , August 18, 2008 (07:46:31 PM)
I can just imagine how hard it would be to kick the addiction as I have seen friends and family go through that and like allniter said anyone who endeavers to win this battle is one brave soul is totally true. I dont believe that people can blame everyone else for their addictions although I do believe that poor upbringing can play a factor but not be the main cause. My parents were not drug users nor were they alcoholics no was I abused in my life but I grew up with multiple family members who were drug abusers and alcoholics and I can honestly say that it opened my eyes and lead me to make sure I did not grow up to live that path of life. But no everyone is like that and it might be harder for them to see the wrongs in that kind of life but who are we to judge on something we may know nothing about coming from this mans eyes and mind? I think it's great he has found a better way of life...not many people of his age leading a life of drugs and crime for that long can get out of it...either that or they just dont want to I am not sure. I dont think that with the facilities that we have to help these people are completely enabling them to live that life...I dont believe it will help to stop it entirely but I agree with allniter when they said that those people need moral support. Sometimes it helps and sometimes it doesnt...it all depends on the person I think. I think its great when people can kick an addiction...weather it be from Meth...to whatever drug of choice...to alcohol to even quitting smoking. I think that Mr.Roy has some words that need to be heard and if he ever came out with a book...I would buy it...and hopefully pass his experiences on that kind of life to anyone that it could change their minds on going down the wrong path. I think it would be benificial to help in teaching younger children on what that kind of life truely holds. Good Job Mr.Roy and I wish you all the best in your long recovery.
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written by shiny , August 19, 2008 (06:53:35 AM)
Bottom line is, we are all different. And it is no better to beat your chest and say that "I'm a survivor and if I did it everyone else can too or they're losers" than it is to say "poor me, I had parents, yada yada yada". Some people need more help than others and to those of you who had the courage and strength to pull yourselves out of that misery, I say congratulations, well done, thank-you from me and the rest of society should say so too. I had a bit of a rough upbringing too, played around with drugs and alcohol but was lucky and never got pulled in deep or addicted. I still found it hard to leave that world and be accepted into a better part of society because as the experience know, it follows you. It's not just a matter of walking away, you have to shake it like bad parasite.
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written by Mayah , August 19, 2008 (10:26:42 AM)
Well this article is amazing. I think we all need to stop judging Phil and congratulate him. This is a tough battle to over come. Not everyone is perfect. Yes, you do chose your paths, but unfortunately sometimes, the only people around you [in your neighborhood, school etc] are like this. It's hard to outrun. Strong people will get away from it. But if you can get out of it, I believe you are stonger than anyone who has never had to deal with drugs, gangs, irresponsible parents etc.
I give Phil a HUGE applause for getting out of it, partly because, I knew him when he was straight, I knew him when he went to jail, and I still know him and now that he's clean, it's a big accomplishment. Kudos to you Phil. Way to go.
This article is to show people that it can be done, the evils of drugs and gangs CAN be beat. I think it is a very positive article.
All of you that come on here and tell everyone how hard you have it, for example, owning businesses, running 160 acre farms etc. You chose this life, you bought the property, you took on the responsibility. Shame on you for competing for sympathy. Good on Phili for going out there and showing the world that it can be done. And how he should be proud of it.

Vote down on this, i could care less what people think of my posts. I am allowed a comment, and this was it.

Vote up on this, maybe I will have more faith in all of the HARD WORKERS that feel the need to comment on this.

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As i said before goodluck Phil,,,
written by Vogel , August 19, 2008 (11:07:31 AM)
but remember what he was and do not make him out to be some kind of hero. Phil is going to have to atone for the lives that he has ended, not just people that have gone to the grave but some of those walking zombies out there him and his former gang are responsible for. Just because you decided to walk away does not absolve you completely of your past crimes and you might have avoided convictions by walking away but the personal damage will go on for years.So good luck to you again Phil and have a good life but as i said do not forget the damage you have caused once and awhile, it might serve as a reminder to keep you clean.
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written by Mayah , August 19, 2008 (11:23:41 AM)
You're right Vogel, but just as you would encourage a child to use the 'potty' once they do you congratulate them and fuss them up. They take this into consideration and continue to use it because it makes them feel good about it [or whatever they think lol]. I believe this is a good stategy.
Agreed he must think back and I am sure he does every day. Once an addict, always an addict.
Fuss the clean ones up, and the addicts might start to think otherwise. Or I could be wrong, I doubt the addicts will give a Sh*t lol.
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written by aGIRL , August 19, 2008 (12:01:06 PM)
We all make mistakes in life and we all learn from them and I dont believe were all perfect peoples. Like MR. picket fence. LOL. Sorry but it to be said. I see alot of Phil on here but what about the rest of the story. I give Phil a big thumbs up "good for you" What about the rest of it though. CORAL, her brother and her lived a life they sponged off as children, it was all they knew, coral came out of it, is a mother and living the opposite of her upbringing, i have to say girl "GOOD FOR YOU" to to get out and do what is right for your child(ren) some people learn, some people dont, some people are so far gone, but are all strong survivors, my prayers go out to those still struggling and a pat on the back to those who got out when they could. To the other person in this artical I dont want to leave anybody out, to the young boy Guy Mitchell Henry, R.I.P. I believe you left your sister a gift, "YOUR JOURNALS" to be published. You will be rememberd, to help the young society today to do the opposite, learn, and utilise. Your sister and you will be rememberd for many years to come when the book is published. My prayers go out to the family who lost there loved one, I hope you find the legal justice that needs to be served. Although it will never bring him back but to know justice is served is closure to know. Good for Phil to help support Coral and her family in a time of struggle. One last thing I want to donate money to help Guy Mitchell Henry's book be published, where do i go. I wonder if the person who wrote the article Frank Peebles would know at the Citizen? I see what is wriiten above in this article, part of the young boys work and I want to read more, where do I go anybody know?
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written by Vogel , August 19, 2008 (02:14:18 PM)
now every small time crack dealer/wanna b rapper is going to write a book. Carry on dealing it from the grave huhé
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written by PhilpacalypseNow , August 19, 2008 (07:39:08 PM)
Me and Coral are speechless right now due to all the positive feedback and we dont know how to thank you all. And all the negative comments said here, well i have to admit that everyone is entitled to their opinions.
some comments where made about where can they donate money to help publish this book of guy mitch henry. well you go to any scotiabank the account is called
"in trust for mitch henry"
we are tryin to raise ten thousand dollars to get all the material published. this book will consist of his journalism, poetry and most of his photos of him at a young age til the passing of mitch (his last photo of him)once we have reached our mark the book will be created and we are looking at a 1000 copies.
the we sell them all or a wide majority of them the money will then be invested in a youth center for them to feel safe and to express their talents and place to sleep if that. And not to forget healthy food for them.
also if your interested i have created a facebook group called prince george gang warfare and drugs affecting the youth. please join us and we need the support to make this dream a reality for mitch.
also on facebook we have a guy mitch henry group. your more then willing to join. me and coral are working on some events for pg youth like dancing and talent events with sponsors and food and beverages for the youth.
i'm not very good with letters and this discussion board please forgive me.
yes it has been a long road and a tough fight to be where we are in life and i am so grateful and free from the thug life i've lived. and for my best friend and street sister coral well i'm not gonna give up on you nor your family. and for my 2 lovely kids with one on the way and tina, i love my family.
and once again thank you for all you positive comments and i will grow and never turn back to it. we all live here and lets all take a stand and work together to eliminate the problem. we all have rights and this is our home. let's take it back!!!
sincerely philpac
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Good for you, Phil
written by inspired , August 19, 2008 (09:01:54 PM)
I am proud of both of you to have to courage to say your story, unfortunately there are too many people losing their lives because of this stupidity, no one get rich selling drugs, you are hurting people and you should stop while you are ahead
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huh to inspired
written by PhilpacalypseNow , August 19, 2008 (09:44:27 PM)
thanx for the encouragement and your right there are many people loosing there lives because of this stupidity. That is why if people like us make a stand as a community and use the voice that was intented for us to use and make an action, maybe we can help save another youth/person before they become chalked on the streets. Coral and I are not intending to hurt anybody we are using our voice to help inspire others to make a stand and or change.
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Live and let live!
written by javajo , August 20, 2008 (07:41:42 AM)
As I read the combative responses to this article, I had but one recurring thought...LIVE AND LET LIVE PEOPLE! Instead of condemning these individuals for sharing their personal stories and their perceptions of their experiences, let's be proud of, and thankful that they have recovered from their drug/gang experiences and hopefully sharing their stories will help another kid out there to choose a different path...I,for one,salute these individuals for having the courage and honesty to express themselves in such a public way...
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written by jimbo , August 20, 2008 (07:54:30 AM)
Inspired-Do you honestly believe no one gets rich selling drugs? Some of them get extremely rich, however, it is usually short lived as someone usually comes along with a bigger gun and takes over. Problem is someone leaves the business and someone joins the business. It is a revolving door.
GOOD LUCK PHIL

Phil how many gang bangers do you think there is in PG? You probably have a better idea than the cops do...
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written by inspired , August 20, 2008 (11:04:38 AM)
Jimbo- I am sure that people get rich selling drugs but there is a high price to pay, when you destroy other people , innocent people pay the price that I dont care for at all, if you want to sell drugs, do drugs, whatever turns your fancy, at least have some morals and respect for the public at large, I am sure that is too much to ask
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written by dhood , August 20, 2008 (11:18:25 AM)
Phil-People will argue until the cows come home-Moooo
Just do right by your own children now. You have learned the lesson. Stick to your guns. LOL! no pun, honest!
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written by Reality , August 20, 2008 (12:57:00 PM)
I think Phil could provide a great service to our youth by perhaps talking to kids about his experiences and the consequences for his past actions. Reveal to honest truth. Something like that should be mandatory in schools - intermediate elementary and again in high school. It may not only prevent our children from being lured by the lifestyle, but it may also empower those who are already involved to make a change.
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written by travhops , August 20, 2008 (08:15:01 PM)
Exactly Reality! Phil, thank you for coming on here and my very best wishes for what you are attempting to do. If you're able to turn one life around, it's been worth it.
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written by PhilpacalypseNow , August 24, 2008 (01:52:47 PM)
the people that commented on this article am i still speechless. the reason i'm writing this is because i need you people to tell me if you agree or disagree with what i'm about to say.
a few months back i went to a YAP friends meeting and i met interesting people there which i surely like. but there was a constable there and her name is Cst. Leslie Dix and she was part of the anti-gang subcommittee and she took interest in what i had to say. and i was excited and proud to do something with myself and the community. anyways to make a long story short i was told that i couldnt attend the anti gang subcommittee meeting due to the fact that i wasnt part of a organisation. how can someone have the nerves to refuse me in such a way? i know the material discussed in these things are sensitive, and maybe she didnt want me to reveal info at these meetings to the public about a specific person or plan. So Constable Lesly Dix, i dont know how much more proof you need to accept me into these meetings that you hold. i have something for the community and a code of thug life that this society needs to know. also peoples me and coral were in the global mail newspapers also but that was this saturday go read up on it somemore. support me and coral in this fight and i can assure you all that we are not going to give up on you all. cause this is our city we live here!!! also on facebook please support us by going to facebook and typing in (prince george gang warfare and drugs affecting the youth and join us!!) and also join the guy mitch henry on facebook too!! let's us know what you think that we should do cause we are wanting to hear what you think should be done!! holla back
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Kudos Phil and good luck
written by gsjonuk , August 24, 2008 (07:01:12 PM)
To overcome the odds and right your life is worthy of praise. By saying this, I don't condone or excuse the pain your past gang activities have caused. Indeed, nothing short of a time machine could do that. However, you now have the opportunity to do great things for this community and for others in your former situation. Your life can be a powerful lesson. I applaud the courage you have shown by sharing your story, even though it has exposed you to scrutiny. I wish you well in your current and future challenges and I hope you can make a difference and atone for your past.
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